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Y-Maidens is an organization originally developed by mothers who were familiar with the values of the YMCA's father and son Y-Guide program. The program uses Native American folklore to provide good examples of parental care for mothers to follow and good behavior patterns for daughters to learn. This program was originally called Indian Maidens, and uses Native American culture as a teaching tool. In Y- Maidens, the mother gains insight into her daughter's skills, needs and her group behavior as she observes her in action among her peers. She will see areas where a girl needs help in getting along with others. She will also see where some of the lessons often repeated have born fruit. Y- Maidens is meant to develop poise and self confidence, and to teach the girls to speak before a group and cooperate with friends. It has been demonstrated through many studies that girls between six and ten often need to identify with adult females. They can benefit from having special times away from home; times when their mother devotes special attention only to them. The one thing that really sets Y-Maidens apart from other youth organizations is that all meetings, outings and activities are attended by both mother and daughter. Here a mother and daughter have the opportunity to learn and play together. This is a wonderful opportunity to build a foundation of friendship and an avenue of communication that can steady a child through the years. It is one way to bridge what one mother has called "mother deafness". It is an opportunity that mothers in Y-Maidens don't want to miss, and the shared moments and laughter will be treasured forever.
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